Monday, April 23, 2012

April Musings

Whoa, here it is April 23rd and this is my first post for the month!  OOOPS!!  Guess I have had alot going on, mixed in with busy work at the j.o.b.!!

I am going to ramble and jump around from topic to topic in no particular order or chronology.  So, sit back, adjust your seatbelt & enjoy the ride!!!  ;)

Harvest Moon House:


We have had 4 showings this month.  The most recent being yesterday morning.  According to our realtor, the person yesterday loves our house....however, she has her own home to sell.  So, maybe the timing will work itself out and her house sells soon and then she can make good on taking ours off our hands! 

We have yet to have any offers come our way. 

We continue to do yard work and have some more weeding and grass pulling to do, both front and back ~~ if it doesn't rain this weekend, then we will get out there and get it finished, so it is off the radar.  I am looking forward to pretty-ing up my flower boxes and big planter, but it is still too early.  Mother's Day weekend, we will head to one of our local greenhouses to stock up on coleus, potato vines, spikes and that fuzzy one that is good filler.

Isis:


Our oldest cat, Isis, who is almost 13, had a health scare at the end of last month that we have been monitoring this month.  The poor thing wasn't eating and she was losing weight....all while going over to her food & water dishes, but not partaking of anything!  It was heartbreaking!!  I could hear her poor stomach growling.  I was having a hard time sleeping and concentrating at work.  I took her to the vet, who did some blood work along with subcutaneous fluids (b/c she was dehydrated) and an injectable antibiotic.  We were going through all different canned cat foods to see what she would eat, as well as feeding her (and Luna) straight tuna, just to get something in her belly. 

After a few days, the vet told us Isis was hyperthyroid.  We started her on methimazole twice a day (a 5 mg tablet split in half).  Just over a week later, she was back to her normal self and we couldn't be happier.  But at the 2 week point, her behavior changed and she was skittish and hiding ~~ she would go into our coat closet and sit, but not lay, and this was never one of her spots.  Chris took her to the vet to see what was going on and get a recheck on her labs (as instructed from her first visit).  To our doctor's delight, Isis's thyroid numbers were way down.  He said he had never seen them drop so quickly and told us to cut her meds to once a day (2.5 mg).  We weren't told why she was acting "off," but I am suspecting that it had to do with her thyroid. 

This morning, she is somewhat reacting as before....she didn't want anything to do with her food or water and she is somewhat hiding, maybe she has a stomach ache as I did hear rumblings.  We are due to take her back next week for another check on her labs at the lowered dose of methimazole.  I will be happy when we get off this roller coaster.  I know she will need to take the meds for the rest of her life, as do I for hypothyroidism, and I don't mind giving it to her...I just want her to feel well everyday!

Kennedy:


Our little goddess is having a health crisis of her own.  My sister, Kelley, took Kennedy for her first shots on the 13th (ew...just realizing it was Friday the 13th).  On the evening of the 14th, Kennedy's right arm was limp.  Kelley & Cody took Kennedy to her doctor Monday morning and he sent them directly to the hospital, where Kennedy had an ultrasound of her brain.  The ER doctor wasn't able to diagnose Kennedy and said they needed to take her to a neurologist. 

They took Kennedy to the neuro that Wednesday, who told them it could be a seizure or a tumor on her brain or her spinal cord and he ordered an MRI.  (He didn't look at the original ultrasound, either...only read a report from someone ~~ THAT doesn't sit well with me b/c I have had an ultrasound read wrong and been sent for a test based solely on said report!!!)  The MRI isn't until May 10th!!!

In the meantime, Kelley says that Kennedy is using her arm, but she knows her strength isn't the same as before.

Now, the doctors are saying the shots have nothing to do with it.  My sister works for a doctor and she did some research and said that, in fact, this side effect occurs in 1% of those who get the vaccination.  I reached out to my Facebook friends and family for support, positive thoughts and prayers and they all came to my side with all that and more!!  Many were able to give me personal accounts of issues with vaccinations and I have shared all of this with my sister.  From this point forward, I believe Kelley & Cody will insist Kennedy receive only 1 shot per visit and, possibly, reject some others.

I have continued to encourage Kelley to keep Kennedy active and stimulated in the belief that it will keep the neurological pathways developing and the neurons firing.  I remain positive that she will not have any tumors or seizures and that all future vaccinations will occur without side effects. 

I would appreciate any and all prayers and positive vibrations coming her way.  Much thanx!!!

And some of the other things keeping us hoppin' this month:
--Cupcakes and coffee with my sweetie @ Designer Desserts (I tried the Pink Champagne this visit ~ light raspberry flavor...yummy!!);
--UFC 145 party with friends;
--Lunch at Hamburger Mary's in Chicago.  New find by my honey ~~ good call!  I enjoyed a $2 mimosa, a Sunday special!!!  I think we will try this hotspot again in the future!!!  Need to give the burgers a go!  Oh, and WHEN you go, you simply must try the seasoned ta-tas!!!
--Trader Joe's in the south Loop.  Add this to our (short) list of Trader Joe's we have shopped.  Snagged a new bottle of wine to drink with some new apple and chardonnay chicken sausages.  Also trying out a frozen beef bourignon to which we will add fresh mashed potatoes.  And we couldn't pass up the tiramisu...such a hit for Chris's birthday that we will share it for my big 4-0 next month!
--2 Easters.  Amazing food at both.  HUGE selection of Greek and American dishes at Chris's brother's home!!  We didn't need to be rolled out after partaking of much of it...but had we taken home leftovers, I think we would have ended up in food comas!  ;)

My 40th:
Only 3 weeks until my THE day!  WOW!  I think we will take the day off from work and head up to Chicago (weather-permitting) to enjoy a Tall Ships sail, grub at Hamburger Mary's, Chicago mix from Garrett's Popcorn, a 4-D experience at Shedd Aquarium...and maybe a ride on the El to Belmont to shop at The Alley where I can get a free tshirt and a 30% discount!  We will wrap up the evening with Trader Joe's tiramisu and red wine at home. 

And it is just under 4 weeks until my Birthday Bash!  We are doing good with our plans.  Some food stuffs will be secured in the next 2-3 weeks; we have the balance of the hall to submit, along with our plans for the table layout; I have balloons to order at Party City; Chris is moving forward on his costume (altho, a bit slower than I would like given how fast time is going); and I would like to practice my makeup while wearing my pink wig!!! 

OK...I think I caught up! 

This week, I begin going to the gym 4 times a week (up from 3).  I want to be in better shape at 40 than 20!  My instructors know this and I am confident they will help me toward my goal!!! 


Friday, March 30, 2012

March Showings Bring April Offers


Junk Gypsies

We have 2 more showings to round out the month.  That will be 6 total for the month of March.  Could tonite's or tomorrow's be THE one???  We are hopeful.

Better get crackin' on rentals fo reals!  Being prepared is key to getting results, right?

Heard some information from a trusted co-worker today that further cements my decision to leave this place in my glitter dust!  It is sometimes hard to believe how much goes on behind my back ... and how much those "in charge" are behind some of it!  (The Director clearly believes his "assistant" is to be trusted, when, in fact, she is the biggest gossip in this place!!!  She is one of those people who must have everyone like her, so she goes out of her way to be on the side of whomever she is speaking with at that given moment.  Then she will take the opposite position when she is talking to the person about whom she was just talking with the other person!)

Hoping to get a few hours of yardwork in this weekend.  Planned to hit it first thing tomorrow morning, but then we were asked to have the house available from 12:15 - 2:15 (large window, I know, but what can you do?!).  We can get 2 hours in tomorrow evening and a couple/few more Sunday.  While I may not get all of the backyard beds weeded, I will make a good size dent!!  We also need to buy top soil and grass seed for half of the front yard...but that project may wait until the following weekend, we'll see.  I hope some of our lilacs have begun to bloom ~~ love them!  I want a bunch for in the house and maybe my desk at work!!  The smell is so delicious!!  (If ours aren't blooming, I may sneak to my aunt's and cut some of hers...besides, she has the purple ones I love best, anyway!!) 





Hard to believe March has come to an end.  I think it came in like a lamb ... and perhaps is leaving like a lamb.  Love this unseasonably warm and calm start to Spring in NWI!!!

Until next month...


Monday, March 26, 2012

In a Boulder state of mind

So, for the past several days, almost a week, Chris and I have had "Boulder on the brain".  Chris even said that his spirituality is being affected by still living in Indiana and not Colorado!  (This is a big statement, as Chris rarely discusses his spirituality.  Even in general terms!!) 

While driving to work, I picture myself along Boulder Canyon Trail as it leads west toward the Boulder Mountain Lodge, along the Boulder Creek Trail.  I can almost hear the trickle of the refreshing and life-giving water. 

Today, I decided to check out rentals in Boulder (WOW, they are high!), just to keep me informed and as a reminder to the Universe that we are moving forward.  That we are ready for the journey.  That the only thing holding us, tying us, anchoring us at this moment is Harvest Moon House.  That we are more than ready for the journey, the adjustments, the CHANGE!

We had another (the 4th this month!!) showing of our house yesterday morning and are hopeful that this is the one, the people who will make us the offer that we will accept, which begins the process of selling our first home and moving toward our destiny.  Yesterday, we sat at a picnic table, in some woods, along the lake in our city and discussed our move to Colorado.  We have toyed with the idea of moving into Valparaiso, where Chris works, after the house sells, while we await Chris landing a job in Colorado.  However, I think yesterday we decided to nix that idea and just GO FOR IT!  When the house sells, we will pack up, find a place in Colorado and head out!  It's a leap of faith, we know, but we do not want to prolong our dream.  Why take a short-term rental here?  Why delay the inevitable?!  The absolutely glorious, simply-splitting-at-the-seams inevitable!!!  We can do the same out there with the money we have saved.  We KNOW Chris will get a job quickly and I can find something part-time, too. 

It's kind of scary, but so exhilarating at the same time!  EEEEEEE!!!!


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Friday, March 23, 2012

Optimism

"The 3 C's of life: choices, chances and changes.  You must make a choice to take a chance or your life will never change."

We have DEFINITELY put the above quote into practice.  We knew before heading to Colorado last May that we wanted to move West.  We just hadn't quite figured out what city, or even what state, we liked best and wanted to focus our energies toward.  However, all that changed the moment we entered Boulder!  I am remaining optimistic for our Colorado plans.  Although things are not moving as fast as we would like with selling the house, we know Colorado is the next stop on our life's journey.  We will remain confident that the timing of selling the house and Chris landing a great job will perfectly coincide.  But we have not completely ruled out the possibility of packing up and heading out there without Chris having yet secured a job (that is the "taking a chance" part for reals!!!).  Again today, Chris found a perfect job at the University of Colorado to which he is unable to apply because it is open only to Colorado residents.  GRRR!!! 

"To change one's life: Start immediately.  Do it flamboyantly."

This time of year is a time for new beginnings.  New beginnings, to me, must spring from an optimistic attitude ~~ when you are looking positively toward a new direction for your future, in whatever endeavor you imagine.  For me, this is a year of making changes.  BIG changes, really.  Yet, I know I need to break free from some chains so that I can be set free to experience more out of life ~~ what has been waiting on me, if only I would do my part.  

(source)


"Finding greatness within yourself is what can set you apart from many."

I truly feel that I have to open myself up by walking away from the safety and security of my current situation to show the Universe that I am ready, willing and able to move forward...to move on...to move up!  I can no longer settle for the mediocrity of my humdrum job any longer.  Yes, it provides me an income.  However, it doesn't provide me joy.  It is lackluster.  It is strangling.  It is an energy vampire.  The greatness is within me, just waiting to be tapped.   



Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Happy March!

Welcome Spring!!!

We have been experiencing the most wonderful, unseasonably warm weather in March for Northwest Indiana/Chicagoland! It is truly magical!  Yesterday, the first day of spring, was glorious!  We were able to be outside after work for a couple of hours doing yardwork: weed and grass removal to freshen up things as the new growth begins peeking out.  Chris was out on Saturday, too.  

Daffodils are one of my all-time favorite flowers (a little cup, a little frill, that's how you make a daffodil!!)!  I cut some of our daffodils over the weekend to bring inside to enjoy!  They are the brightest, yellowest burst of sunshine!!  

I have been a book-reading maniac!  And have another MUST READ for you...

http://www.amazon.com/Night-Circus-Erin-Morgenstern/dp/0385534639
Okay, for me, The Night Circus is the one book I think you should read this summer!!!  I now want to find and join the Night Circus!  A magickal circus and a love story all in one.  I cannot begin to give a summary that would do any justice, so, please, head to the Amazon link above and check it out for yourself.  Pick this one up ~~ you will not be disappointed.  (The only disappointment: completing the read and knowing this particular adventure is over!) 

I just finished reading Stef Penney's The Invisible Ones (I posted about this one on the previous blog entry)I highly recommend this book, too.  The story involves a missing Gypsy girl and the private investigator (half Gypsy himself, which is why the missing girl's father chose him) who embarks on finding her.  The twist at the end took me by surprise!

I have had the pleasure of enjoying time with some girlfriends, old & new, this month.  Lunch with my long-time friend, Deb, one work day and dinner with other gals this past Sunday nite.  Always invigorating and grounding, at the same time, when I get to be with any of "my girls"!!  A joy that I will definitely miss when we finally move to Colorado.  Girlfriends are irreplaceable and necessary!

Spring is a time for rebirth, renewal, new beginnings, new stories, new ideas ... to that end, I am working toward ending my current career by the next change of seasons.  It is a feeling of both relief and anxiety: so I know I am doing the right thing!  I have taken to using my personal time off (PTO) days about once a week, for the necessary break I need from the humdrum and drama of the workplace.  It is vital!  I will have some time on the books when I give my notice, so that will give me an extra paycheck. 

I am looking for part-time work in the spa field, as recommended by my smart hubby, since that is where my next career path can take me.  While it will be very strange not to have a routine (at least initially), especially after coming to the same job for almost 10 years, I will enjoy having the time to do all the cleaning, laundry, shopping during the day while Chris is at work ~~ and then we can have our weekends to do whatever we want!  Well, after Chris mows the lawn!  HeeHee!! 

Harvest Moon House has 1) had its asking price lowered $2000 and 2) had several showings.  However, none have been highly successful, as we have yet to receive any offers.  Just wait until our yard is even half in bloom ~~ they will be blown away!  Maybe we can have a little bidding war?!  HA!  One offer close to our asking price will suffice, really!  Are you listening, Universe?  We are doing our part to keep things looking show-ready...we even buried a St. Joseph (upside down) next to the For Sale sign!

We have been diligently working on my 40th birthday bash!  There are some things we still need to buy, which I think we will do the last month before the party.  Chris has asked his mom to help with his costume, but he has yet to get over there to get the work started (fingers crossed, he will go this weekend ~~ so I can work on our taxes while he is gone!).  My outfit is almost complete, just need to make some strategic cuts to my shirt.  I am also going to do a practice makeup and hair session a few weeks before.  Think I will treat myself to some loud eyeshadow ~~ loud like, totally, describes 80's fashion, dude!!

Wishing you new beginnings this spring ~~ or, at least, think about new ideas that you would like to start putting into play this year! 

Tuesday, February 28, 2012

Books, Books, Glorious Books

I am a HUGE fan of the printed word!  I love, love, love to read!!  I have cards for two local libraries and they get put to good use.  A couple friends and I have been sharing book recommendations via Facebook posts to one another.  Why not share them with my blog community, too? 
http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/4330608-atlas-of-unknowns
Atlas of Unknowns is the story of two sisters, whose mother died when they were both very young, and the girls become separated when one of them briefly moves from India to America on a scholarship (that she won by offering her sister's artwork as her own).  Both of their lives change dramatically within a year's time and they realize how much they need the other and the life they are accustomed to in India. 

I have wanted to visit India for many, many years, so I thoroughly enjoyed the references to India, her people and her geography.

http://www.lacereader.com/
The Lace Reader follows Towner/Sophya Whitney as she reluctantly returns to her hometown, Salem, when her great aunt is reported missing.  Towner has to deal with her family, from whom she ran away 15 years ago to California: her reclusive mother, May; her abused aunt, Emma; her abusive and now religious uncle, Cal; along with her brother, long-dead sister and some of the characters of the town. 

I let myself get lost in the books I read and was not expecting the twist at the end of The Lace Reader

I will begin Brunonia Barry's next book this evening. 

http://www.amazon.com/Map-True-Places-Novel/dp/B0064X7HEY/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1330462432&sr=1-1

And will follow it up with:

http://www.bookdepository.com/Invisible-Ones-Stef-Penney/9780857382924

I hope you can take time to allow yourself to be lost in literature, like me.

Friday, February 24, 2012

Look What Cupid Brought

Kennedy Harper Lee
6 lbs, 9 oz
19.75 "
10:34P Valentine's Day 2012

Our newest baby goddess...aka our niece, Kennedy, arrived just in time to share her birthday with her Uncle Chris!!!  She waited inside her mama, my younger sister Kelley, for 3 days after her due date, just to be Uncle Chris's special birthday gift in 2012!!

Isn't she just adorable?!  Pretty in Pink!!  The same size as her (pink) giraffe!

We sent her an outfit with pretty skulls.  She is still too tiny for it, but my sister will send me pics the moment Kennedy can wear it!!! 

Check out the goddesses:
Shyla Lynn holding Kennedy Harper!  Look at Shy's big smile and those delicious cheeks!!!  When Cody, Kennedy's daddy, wanted "his turn" with the baby, Shy did NOT want to let her go!  I believe it went a bit like this:
S: "My Kennedy"
C: "My Kennedy"
S: "No, my Kennedy"
C: "No, I am her daddy"

I think Shyla will be like Kennedy's big sister, more than her cousin.  Wish I lived closer to see that relationship develop and bloom in person.  I love these girls!  They have Aunt Jennie's heart, no doubt!


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